Depression therapy - San Francisco Bay Area

It's really hard right now, but depression doesn't have to rule your life.

Anny Papatheodorou, LMFT

Therapy offerings for adults in Walnut Creek, Oakland, and available online throughout California

We don't have to do all of it alone.

We were never meant to.

— Brené Brown, PhD.

What does living with depression look like?

We all experience sadness throughout the course of life. Depression, though, goes way beyond feeling sad or down. Depression can be so powerful and debilitating, leaving you feeling worthless, purposeless, hopeless, and without the ability to just "snap out of it."

People around you might be highlighting all the positives in your life: “What do you have to be depressed about?” or "It's not so horrible, you'll be OK." It aches to hear this because they just don’t get it. Or you may have the impression that what you're going through isn't so terrible, especially in comparison to all the other tragic things going on in the world.

What used to bring you joy, doesn’t anymore. You find yourself in a dark place, alone, and scared at times. You find it hard to care about anything and you may be more irritable than usual, or just want to withdraw and isolate.

You’re tired of feeling this way, and just want your life back.

Severe depression can be very dangerous, even deadly. If you or a loved one are in a life threatening situation, do not use this site.

Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, a free, 24-hour hotline: 1-800-273-8255. Your call will be routed to the crisis center near you.

What are symptoms of depression?

physical

insomnia

disturbed sleeping patterns

being fatigued

changes in appetite & weight

emotional

sadness

irritability & anger

shame & guilt

nervousness

thoughts

self-criticism

hopelessness & helplessness

suicidal thoughts

concentration difficulties

behaviors

withdrawal from others

apathy

not finding pleasure

indecisiveness

You are not to blame for depression

Depression zaps our energy, our vitality, our life force. Depression commonly develops when our brain is unable to hold and process frightening emotions such as anger, and therefore shuts down. When we don’t learn or aren’t taught how to move through our emotions, our brain can perceive an emotion such as anger as a threat, and will guard us against it by all means. Unfortunately, the price we pay may be our own vitality, pleasure, and purpose.

There might be many barriers between you and seeking out therapy for depression - feeling fearful that there’s no relief in sight, fearful of acknowledging the need for help, fearful of disappointing others, and fearful of disappointing yourself if this too doesn't work. 

Most importantly, depression itself may be preventing you from seeking treatment. If you are depressed, it is possible that you’re feeling hopeless and helpless, and live in this endless loop of knowing deep down that you need help, yet not reaching out to get the help you need and deserve. 

We work with these barriers to help you access and process your emotions, rediscover and nourish your authenticity and sense of identity, as well as heal previous traumas that brought upon the tough feelings you defended against initially.

Approach to depression therapy

I understand how difficult it may be to open up to someone you barely know. Please rest assured that I don’t expect you to list all your worries in our first session, nor do I have a set of predetermined questions that we go through. As a wise teacher once told me, therapy can only move at the pace we build trust between us. I take pride in establishing a welcoming, comfortable environment where you can be yourself without fear of being criticized and/or judged.

Therapy can alleviate feelings of isolation by providing a sounding board for you to speak your truth, and verbalize what may have been left unsaid and unprocessed. Together, we can identify thoughts patterns and ingrained beliefs that no longer serve you, as well as shed light on and shift behaviors that keep you limited and unfulfilled

I work primarily through an Internal Family Systems (IFS) lens, as well as integrate mindfulness practices, in particular mindful self-compassion. For more on my approach, please visit this page

In therapy, we can identify the triggers to get to the source of the suffering, identify short and long term solutions to bring about a sense of relief, and explore different avenues to help balance how you view yourself and your future.

Seeking help for depression takes fortitude and grit, and it may be one of the most important decisions you make for your well-being.

Depressive symptoms can improve, and relief is attainable. 

If you would like therapy for depression, please reach out.

 FAQs about depression therapy

Welcome! I’m Anny.

I'm a licensed psychotherapist certified in Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and Brainspotting therapy. Not to mention a fantasy novel nerd, human and dog mother, and feta cheese aficionado.

I know in my bones what it is like to come from a challenging and painful background. As a relational trauma therapist, I have the honor of helping people heal their childhood wounds so that they create lives full of possibility and choice.

In our work together, I bring my full Self, meaning I'm right there with you every step of the way. I'm not a "blank slate" and will offer reflections and personal examples that may shed some light on your experiences, moments of "stuckness," and isolation.

I can hold intensity. There's no such thing as "being too much or too needy." I will laugh with you. I will curse with you. And welcome all parts of you wholeheartedly.

“Ring the bells that still can ring. Forget your perfect offering. There is a crack, a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in.”

— Leonard Cohen